augustine was pretty wise

I've borrowed this from a friend's signature

"If you believe what you like in the gospels, and reject what you don't like, it's not the gospel you believe, but yourself." -Augustine

Oh, how this sounds like someone I have the misfortune to know!
Of course, I am probably guilty of this at times as well.

Jaden's father has decided that although he fathered Jaden, he has no desire to be his dad - that being his dad would 'rob' his new life of all it deserves - LOSER!!

Sorry, couldn't help that :)
is actually a much kinder word than I had in mind, but I am censoring myself :)